Sometimes I wonder if I'd rather be the reacher or the settler in a relationship.
Being the reacher means living in fear of the other realizing they can do better & leaving you, whereas settling means being in a relationship knowing you could do better. So which one's better?
I'd like to think we both reached & settled on different terms, but maybe that's where we went wrong. Maybe things would have worked out better if we both reached.
I know I'm repeating myself, but God, I hate distance.